October 11 Birthday Personality: Social Elegance

Social Elegance

Your greatest challenge is…

harnessing your ambition

The way forward is…

to understand that popularity does not guarantee fulfillment; for a more rewarding life you need to set yourself personal goals.

You’re drawn to people born on…

June 21 to July 22

You are both sociable and sensitive individuals, and this can be a loving and rewarding relationship.

Luck maker

Stop procrastinating

Lucky people are not necessarily more talented than other people, but they set themselves goals and take proactive steps to see them realized.

People born on October 11 tend to be attractive and popular people. They are masters of the art of socializing, at their happiest and best when they are at the center of a group of colleagues or friends. Their style is easygoing and elegant, and their likable personality enables them to mix with people of all ages and all walks of life.

Others may envy the ease with which they merge into a group, strike up a conversation with a newcomer, advance up the career ladder, and ascend into the highest social circles. But underneath their graceful exterior, people born on this day may feel as if something important is missing. It’s important for them to listen to this feeling because what’s missing is personal ambition. Although their upbeat personality attracts popularity and position, they tend to drift into these positions rather than having clearly defined personal goals. As a result they may feel as if they have very little control over their lives; their aversion to conflict or challenge is even more damaging, because a little challenge and suffering in their lives will help them learn and grow emotionally.

Until the age of forty-two there is an emphasis in their lives on emotional change and a need for personal power. During these years they need to take advantage of opportunities to challenge themselves professionally and personally, because challenge is the key to their success. After the age of forty-three there is a turning point when they are likely to widen their interests, feel more free, and seek inspiration through study, relationships or travel. Again the key to their success and fulfillment will be their willingness to take calculated risks and embrace challenge.

This is because once they discover within themselves a drive to achieve and the courage to avoid the temptation of always taking the safest or most popular route, their outstanding grace, humanity and intellect will ensure that they don’t just appear to be leading a charmed life—they will actually feel as if they are living it.

On the dark side

Superficial, unfulfilled, passive

At your best

Sociable, charming, popular

Love Appealing style

People born on October 11 rarely have problems attracting romantic admirers, although a tendency to alternate between being an intense and passionate lover and a need to feel like a free agent can cause problems in long-term relationships. It’s important for them to be discriminating in their choice of partner, choosing someone for reasons other than looks and popularity.

Health Delicate

People born on this day need to take extra special care of their health because they can be delicate. They may, for example, need more sleep and rest than others and it may take them longer than normal to recover from an illness. Music can be extremely therapeutic for them, as can aromatherapy oils and dancing. There is a tendency for them to be sedentary so they need to make an effort to incorporate more activity into their daily lives, scheduling a regular program of exercise at least four or five times a week; walking is particularly recommended. They also need to avoid addictive substances like alcohol, tobacco and caffeine, and to satisfy their sweet tooth with fruit or seeds instead of chocolate. Meditation techniques will help them strengthen their will-power, and wearing, meditating on and surrounding themselves with the color blue will encourage them to imagine, plan and create clear goals for themselves.

Career Born therapists

These people may take some time to settle into a career and there may also be several career changes in their lifetime. They have the potential to flourish in many careers including writing, music, sport, social reform, sales, promotion, commerce, counseling, teaching, training, law, politics, advertising, art, design, and the media.

Destiny To be an innovator in their chosen field

The life path of people born on this day is to nurture personal ambitions. Once they have discovered what will give their life meaning, their destiny is to be a teacher or innovator in their chosen field.

Power Thought

“Every struggle is an opportunity for me to find myself”

October 11

Signs & symbols

Sun sign: Libra

Ruling planet: Venus, the lover

Symbol: The Scales

Birth date ruler: Moon, the intuitive

Tarot card: Justice (discernment)

Favorable numbers: 2, 3

Lucky days: Friday and Monday, especially when these days fall on 2 and 3 of the month

Lucky colors: Purple, silver, milky white

Birthstone: Opal


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