October 04 Birthday Personality: Edgy Congeniality

Edgy Congeniality

Your greatest challenge is…

overcoming complacency

The way forward is…

to understand that until you start testing yourself in new situations you won’t learn much about yourself and what really makes you happy.

You’re drawn to people born on…

September 23 to October 22

You are both charming and agreeable; just make sure you leave room for plenty of passion in the equation.

Luck maker

Concrete thinking

Take time every week to think about what you would like to complete. Set yourself realistic goals and organize your time so that you can achieve them. Research shows that feelings of confidence and happiness increase significantly with concrete thinking.

The desire for a harmonious environment that drives people born on October 4 makes them among the most agreeable and popular people of the year. They have sensual, esthetic tastes and love to surround themselves with pleasant people and beautiful things.

In whatever situation they are in, these people tend to come across as relaxed and at ease with themselves; this is in part due to their love of the good things in life, their naturally non-confrontational personality and their gift for getting along with just about anybody. This doesn’t mean they don’t have strong opinions; if pressed they can certainly be passionate and forthright in their beliefs. It’s just that they like to present their case in a way that is not offensive to others and in a manner that is laced with humor, humility and tact, believing that this approach is more likely to get people on their side. They also have an astute way of looking at the world and a strong sense of realism about what is achievable and what is not.

After the age of nineteen, and lasting for the following thirty years, there is an important turning point for people born on this day that highlights a growing need for personal change, intensity and transformation. During these years they will feel a strong need to create a life of pleasure and harmony; with their congenial personality this is often just what they manage to create for themselves and others. However, they will also find that time and again life throws obstacles, challenges and conflicts in their path. The way they respond to these challenges will to some extent determine their success or failure personally and professionally.

If they can discover within themselves a fighting spirit and a determination to do their things their way, these remarkably gregarious, sensual but always level-headed and peace-loving people will find not only that they are extremely popular with others, but that others look to them for advice, guidance and inspiration about how to make the world a more beautiful place.

On the dark side

Superficial, indulgent, complacent

At your best

Agreeable, tasteful, popular

Love Stand up for yourself

People born on October 4 are charming, fun loving, and never short of friends and admirers. They are extremely tactile and affectionate. Their pleasureloving and non-confrontational nature can, however, sometimes mean that they don’t have their say in a relationship. They should understand that conflict need not destroy a relationship; sometimes it can keep it alive.

Health Don’t skip breakfast

People born on this day tend to be pleasure-seeking individuals but they should ensure that they do not take their love of food, drink, spending, and sex to excess. It is also important for them not to lose themselves in a world of indulgence and superficiality; if they do, they will be prone to stress and depression. As far as diet is concerned, they need to make sure that they don’t skip breakfast because this can cause a big drop in their blood sugar levels, affecting their mood and judgment, and rendering them prone to sugar cravings, which will just make the situation worse. Regular exercise, preferably on a daily basis, is highly recommended. Walking will be particularly beneficial as it will give them some time alone to think and reflect on where their life is heading. Wearing, meditating on and surrounding themselves with the color red will encourage them to be more confrontational, while the color purple will help them think of higher things.

Career Born counselors

Once these people understand that importance of setting tangible goals for themselves they may be drawn to careers in which they can benefit others, such as social work, medicine, law, engineering, education, counseling, or science. With their love of variety they need to choose careers that involve plenty of change, and their well-developed visual sense may draw them toward image making, photography, media, graphics, and design.

Destiny To make the world a more harmonious place

The life path of people born on this day is to take calculated risks and stand up for themselves when the situation demands it. Once they are able to be more assertive and to set themselves goals, their destiny is to make the world a more harmonious place.

Power Thought

“I am a soul with a body, not a body with a soul”

October 4

Signs & symbols

Sun sign: Libra

Ruling planet: Venus, the lover

Symbol: The Scales

Birth date ruler: Uranus, the visionary

Tarot card: The Emperor (authority)

Favorable numbers: 4, 5

Lucky days: Friday and Sunday, especially when these days fall on 4 and 5 of the month

Lucky colors: Lavender, silver, electric blue

Birthstone: Opal


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