November 20 Birthday Personality: The Wrestler

The Wrestler

Your greatest challenge is…

not to take yourself too seriously

The way forward is…

to understand that a lighthearted, subtle approach can often have just as much impact and power as a forceful, direct one.

You’re drawn to people born on…

June 21 to July 22

You are both spontaneous and instinctual in your approach to life, and this can be a loving and passionate union.

Luck maker

Treat everyone as potential helpers

Lucky people treat everyone with respect, no matter what their qualifications, background or status are. Who knows who could eventually be of help to you?

Struggle is a major theme for people born on November 20. This can express itself in a struggle for recognition in the outside world or an inner conflict where the impulsive and impatient aspects of their personality wrestle for dominance with the more self-controlled and disciplined urges.

From an early age, these people will never have been afraid of standing up for what is right, even if that means standing alone. They are capable of incredible fixity of purpose and energy; more often than not they will blaze a pioneering trail though life, inspiring many others along the way to follow their lead. If a cause or an authority figure does not have their respect, however, they will strongly and openly criticize or reject it, sometimes making enemies they don’t need along the way. This impulsive response, although honest and direct, is not surprising given that they have an emotional response to life. In fact, much of their life is ruled by their never-changing emotions; one moment they are optimistic and enthusiastic, the next they are bitterly disillusioned and in the depths of despair. Although their intensity and seriousness of purpose will attract considerable success and respect, they would feel far happier and more fulfilled if they could find it within their hearts to take themselves just a little less seriously.

Before the age of thirty-one they are most likely to move forward with their lives in a spirit of optimism; these are the years when they are most likely to take risks. After the age of thirty-two, however, there is a turning point when they are likely gradually and over a period of years to become more practical, ambitious and realistic in their approach to life, desiring order and structure.

The key to their success—whatever their age and stage in life—will be their ability to acknowledge and accept their emotions, in particular their anger, successfully. This will give them the mental advantage they need to triumph over almost any obstacle, challenge or opponent that stands in their way.

On the dark side

Tactless, volatile, overly serious

At your best

Courageous, idealistic, energetic

Love Love sick

People born on this day are kind-hearted, generous and sincere, but they can be possessive and selfish at times, and are also prone to mood swings. They have deep and powerful emotions but will sometimes try to chase people who they know will turn them down simply because they love the thrill of the chase and, for reasons even they could not explain, the melancholy of lovesickness.

Health Anger management

People born on this day have a rash and impulsive side and this can make them accident and injury prone. If anyone was prone to road rage, bank rage, supermarket rage, or any kind of rage it would be them, and they may benefit from anger-management techniques. Regular moderate to vigorous exercise is strongly advised for its health-boosting and calming effects, and learning how to relax and not to take things so personally is also helpful. As far as exercise is concerned, they need to increase their intake of whole grains, fruits and vegetables, and to eat less red meat and rich food. One of the best ways to boost their health, however, will be for them to find the stability they need in a long-term loving relationship. Wearing, meditating on and surrounding themselves with the color blue will help them keep calm during times of crisis and uncertainty.

Career Born business leaders

These people tend to excel in business-related careers, but their dramatic sense can also help them succeed in politics, the entertainment world or the arts. Other work options include education, writing, sales, city planning, environmental issues, and charity work.

Destiny To lead so others can follow

The life path of people born on this day is to learn to understand and manage their emotions. Once they understand that emotions have important messages to deliver, their destiny is to blaze a pioneering trail through life for others to follow.

Power Thought

“I am calm and in control”

November 20

Signs & symbols

Sun sign: Scorpio

Ruling planet: Mars, the warrior

Symbol: The Scorpion

Birth date ruler: Moon, the intuitive

Tarot card: Judgment (responsibility)

Favorable numbers: 2, 4

Lucky days: Tuesday and Monday, especially when these days fall on 2 and 4 of the month

Lucky colors: Red, silver, white

Birthstone: Topaz


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