December 21 Birthday Personality: The Secret

The Secret

Your greatest challenge is…

trusting and sharing with others

The way forward is…

to understand that everything in life, including relationships, involves a certain amount of risk-taking. Sometimes you just have to take a leap of faith.

You’re drawn to people born on…

November 22 to December 21

If you can both learn to be less secretive, open up and share, this relationship has great potential for happiness.

Luck maker

Let go of hidden resentments

Hidden resentments poison your thoughts, keep you stuck in the past and attract bad luck your way. Letting go or forgiving, however, has the opposite effect, channeling your energy into attracting luck.

Although they are energetic and strong willed, it’s very hard to know what people born on December 21 are really thinking and feeling as they are by nature secretive. They prefer to express themselves with actions rather than words, and their powerful, silent presence can be inscrutable even to those closest to them.

Even though they might be a mystery to others, this does not mean they are reserved or passive. Quite the opposite; they are determined to achieve their goals and get their point across. It is just that instead of an exchange of opinions they usually prefer to push ahead regardless of what others are saying or thinking. If this means there will be battles along the way, so be it. In fact, their presence can be intimidating not just because others never know what to expect from them but because when they do lash out their few carefully chosen words can be harsh and cutting. Others may therefore feel that they can never relax around them because they are like a dormant volcano, quiet on the outside but with a burning intensity on the inside.

Despite sometimes appearing menacing or brooding, they are surprisingly insecure, although they would never allow others to know this. It’s this insecurity, however, which forces them to be defensive, to nurture hidden resentments against those that cross them and, above all, to crave the admiration and respect of others. They should understand that they already have the admiration of others, but what they really need is their affection; this can only be earned when they learn to trust and share their feelings.

Around the age of thirty-two there will be a turning point when there are opportunities for them to focus less on proving themselves and more on finding their place within society. If they can take advantage of these opportunities and learn to open their minds to alternative viewpoints and their hearts to the magical potential within them and others, they will not only discover the secret of their happiness but the secret of everyone else’s too.

On the dark side

Domineering, inflexible, self-involved

At your best

Strong-willed, authoritative, intriguing

Love A feisty partner

People born on December 21 are attractive but also slightly unsettling for potential partners. This is because they like to do their own thing but won’t allow others to do theirs. If things aren’t perfect for them they will withdraw or move on without explanation or discussion. A feisty partner who isn’t intimidated by them would help them find happiness.

Health Open up and share

People born on this day can suffer from tension and mental overload, so solitude is vital for them to quiet and calm their mind. They need to be careful, though, not to go overboard in their need for space and quiet, because too much time spent alone is not good for them. They may find that the best way to deal with tension is to spend more time with friends and loved ones. Counseling or therapy is advised if they find it very hard to open up and share. As far as diet is concerned, they need to watch their intake of sweet and fatty foods because weight gain, particularly around the middle, can be a problem. Caffeine and alcohol should also be limited and, if they smoke, they are advised to quit immediately to reduce the risk of heart disease. Vigorous exercise, preferably of the social kind such as dancing, aerobics or team sports, is recommended. Wearing, meditating on and surrounding themselves with the color orange will encourage them to be more spontaneous and expressive, as will carrying a turquoise crystal.

Career Born entrepreneurs

These people may often be found dominating in a variety of careers in the fields of science, business, sports, arts, and the world of entertainment. They typically rise to management level, but may also work for themselves and become high-flying entrepreneurs.

Destiny To become the pioneers and leaders in their chosen field

The life path of people born on this day is to recognize the power of positive thinking. Once they have understood that they are in charge of who or what they attract into their lives, their destiny is to combine their authority and decisiveness with compassion and flexibility, becoming outstanding leaders in their chosen field.

Power Thought

“Whatever the question, I know that love is the answer”

December 21

Signs & symbols

Sun signs: Sagittarius/Capricorn

Ruling planets: Jupiter, the philosopher/Saturn, the teacher

Symbols: The Archer/The Goat

Birth date ruler: Jupiter, the philosopher

Tarot card: The World (fulfillment)

Favorable numbers: 3, 6

Lucky day: Thursday, especially when it falls on 3 and 6 of the month

Lucky colors: Purple, blue, white

Birthstone: Turquoise


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