Your greatest challenge is…
being sensitive to the feelings of others
The way forward is…
to understand that the truth presented tactfully can be motivational but the truth presented harshly can make others defensive.
You’re drawn to people born on…
June 21 to July 22
You both have a lot to learn and love about each other, and this can be a passionate and creative union.
Thrust and squeeze
The bonding power of a firm handshake signifies energy, trust and strength and is more likely to impress people and make them want to offer their support than a limp wrist. Most lucky people have firm handshakes.
People born on November 14 have an intense and earnest air about them, others immediately sensing their conviction and self-reliance. They are driven by their desire to fully understand what life presents them with but most of all by their urge to guide others toward improvement.
Tending to observe others with a degree of affectionate distance, this gives these people the detachment and objectivity they need to guide and improve the lives of others. More often than not the insights and advice they offer are embraced wholeheartedly by colleagues, friends and loved ones, but sometimes they can be too meddling. It is important for them to understand that there are situations in which their advice will not necessarily be welcome and occasions where their judgments will not be appreciated.
Until the age of thirty-seven there will be opportunities for people born on this day to become more expansive in their outlook and, because of their tendency to connect with others on an intellectual rather than an emotional level, they should try to integrate more with others and with society as a whole. It is also important during this time that they evaluate their choice of career intensely and if need be make changes, because it might significantly impact their psychological growth. After the age of thirty-eight there is a turning point when they may become more realistic, persevering and security conscious, seeking more structure and order.
Whatever career they choose, they tend to see themselves as teachers or guides and have all the passion, integrity and intellect they need to be a positive force in the lives of others. However, it is not until they are able to turn the spotlight on their own needs, in particular their own need for guidance and support, that they will be able to balance their orientation toward others with their own needs. Ironically, it is only when they can find what gives their own life meaning and fulfillment that they can truly assist others, becoming the inspirational guide and role model they were destined to be.
On the dark side
Interfering, controlling, frustrated
At your best
Intelligent, observant, helpful
Love Trust is everything
Relationships are deep and intense for people born on November 14, and trust means everything to them. It may take them a while to give that trust, but once they do they love forever, sometimes even when that trust is betrayed. They are attracted to dramatic and intelligent people like themselves, who can inspire them to be more expressive and original than they already are.
People born on this day may suffer from mild rashes and bouts of insomnia. These could be food intolerances but could also be a result of unnecessary stress and anxiety about their health. They may visit their doctor once too often for minor ailments; although it is important to take precautions, they should have more faith in their body’s ability to heal itself; perhaps studying the principles of naturopathy will be beneficial. As far as diet is concerned, they tend to be very good cooks and, as long as they don’t go overboard on sugar, salt and rich sauces and spices, their diet is often healthy. If weight is a problem they need to make sure that they don’t get obsessed with exercise, reminding themselves that although regular exercise is beneficial for health and will help them lose weight, the key to weight control often lies in the head; they may need to stop thinking of themselves as overweight. Carrying a quartz crystal will help boost their mood and reenergize their zest and vitality in all situations.
Career Born advisors
These people have a natural affinity with careers in which they can help, guide or assist others, such as social work, therapy, the medical professions, counseling, and teaching. They may also be drawn toward writing, research and psychology, as well as the theater, music and the arts.
Destiny To guide, assist and inspire others
The life path of people born on this day is to learn to maintain a healthy intellectual and emotional equilibrium. Once they have learned to balance their own needs with those of others, their destiny is to offer practical and emotional support, guidance and assistance to others.
“To truly help others I must first help myself”
Signs & symbols
Sun sign: Scorpio
Ruling planet: Mars, the warrior
Symbol: The Scorpion
Birth date ruler: Mercury, the communicator
Tarot card: Temperance (moderation)
Favorable numbers: 5,7
Lucky days: Tuesday and Wednesday, especially when these days fall on 5 and 7 of the month
Lucky colors: Dark blue, deep red, green